Sunday, 12 June 2016

Confessions of an Ungrateful Wife

These are my confessions part 2! I've realised I'm an ungrateful wife. Not necessarily in my relationship- I have recently made it an aim to make sure that I am appreciative of everything my husband does(this is where he interjects and says since when? :p) - but in terms of our house.

We got married 11 months ago, moved out of our parents' home 11 months ago and moved into our own house 11 months ago. I feel like I officially became an adult 11 months ago!! Whilst studying at uni, I had moved out and lived on my own, so I already knew the challenges that came with living in your own home, but now I feel I have much more responsibilities. 

So this weekend I found myself dragging my feet in regards to the household chores. The dishes need washing AGAIN. The laundry needs doing AGAIN. We need to cook AGAIN. It had been a long week at work, and we had both been doing a lot of things outside of work too! So when it came to the weekend I didn't want to do ANYTHING! Not even rest for a bit and then go back into things, I mean I didn't want to do ANYTHING! Now I'm not saying that we should not rest (and this is something I need to learn) but I could recognise that my attitude towards these things was very negative, hence the AGAIN opposed to I'll just do it later.

Then I began to reflect on how I felt about things. I can either be miserable about all the things that I have to do or joyful (content if it makes you feel better). I began to think that 12 months ago we had been praying for a place to live and couldn't even think about where furniture and everything else was going to come from. Now we have a bed to sleep in and a roof over our head.

So instead of complaining about all the things I have to do and moaning about it, I am grateful to have a home to keep clean. :) What are you grateful for?


2 comments:

  1. It's never easy when reality comes knocking at your door (house chores still need doing!), but what has been working for us is doing everything in small portions and not waiting until it piles up (our house isn't that big anyway, lol).

    In addition, my huzzy is a great cook and I'm a great housekeeper so we kind of know our "roles" but never leave each other do that particular chore for too long: We alternate!

    Thanks for sharing yourself with us sso we all can grow together. I love your conclusion : Decide/Choose to ve happy.
    Blessings

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    1. Thank you for your thoughts! Sharing responsibilities makes a big difference and eating the elephant small chunks at a time is definitely wise!

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